Why Being Romantic Is Important...

If you're one of those guys who doesn't think that being romantic is all that important, this post is aimed at persuading you that it's not so unimportant!

Now this is just a theory of mine and we all know that theories are often disproven so all I'm hoping with this theory is that you have a little think about the ideas that I'm proposing, the implications of them and what they mean for romance and relationships.

People think with both their hearts and heads depending on the situation. In most situations, women think with their hearts which is why they are loving, caring and kindhearted. For women, the hearts tend to control the positive decisions and the head controls negative decisions. In the female world, the heart can take over the head. To do that, the heart needs to have enough power to do that. How can that happen?


Love and Romance.


The heart collects all of those gestures of love and romance, stores them up and locks them away, ready to fight away logic.



Take the following example...
Your girlfriend is mad with you again because you've done something wrong. If her heart doesn't have enough power then her head will win and her decision will be based on right vs. wrong, based on the situation - what you've done wrong and how badly. If her heart has enough power then it can say - all of these (romantic) examples show that although he's done this wrong, they don't matter because normally he's like this.


So the next time your girlfriend is mad, try and win over her heart, not her head! Good luck as always!

Love from lila xx