Why does that question seem to freak men out so much? If it freaks you out because you don't really know how to answer the question or what she wants you to say then I may have a solution for you. There's nothing confusing or difficult about the question, she just wants to hear how you feel about her, whether you think she's attractive and whether she's important to you because women need to be reassured regularly that you love them and are happy with the relationship. It's even better if you tell her how you feel without being prompted (hint hint).
Here's a few questions that she may be implying with 'how do you feel?' and that you could use to answer her with...
- Do you think I'm attractive?
- Do you love me? (if you've got there already)
- Do you miss me when I'm gone? Do you look forward to seeing me after we've been apart?
- Are you proud to show me off in front of your friends? Do you think that they think you're lucky?
- Do you see me in your future? Do you look forward to it?
- Do you think you're lucky to be with me?
- Are you happy with me?
- Do you enjoy spending time with me?
- (For those with kids) Do you think I'm a good mum? Are you proud of our family?
The main thing to think about when she asks you is - What does your heart tell you when you look at her? If you keep that in mind and answer that, then you should be able to give her an answer that will make her happy. If you want to know how to phrase some of the things that you might want to tell her then take a look at this post from a few weeks ago.
And a little heads up, just in case. If she's telling you how she feels about you, this would be a really great time to tell her how you feel about her because she's probably sharing her feelings as she's feeling a little insecure and is hoping that you'll share yours too.
So I've sent you off armed with some ideas about how to answer the dreaded 'how do you feel?' question which I hope now isn't quite as dreaded as before. As always, good luck!
Love from lila xx
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