Female Indecisiveness

Do you ever wonder why your girlfriend refuses to make decisions? As far as feminism has come and as much as your girlfriend values being treated equally, sometimes it's nice for her to have the decision made for her.

Have you ever had a situation where your girlfriend seems like she doesn't want to make a decision and keeps throwing it back to you to decide? Perhaps she's trying to tell you that she's happy for you, or even wants you to make the decision. She might even secretly like you to make the decisions all the time but doesn't want to lose that 'modern emancipated female' thing.

Be brave. The next time you have one of those, 'no, you choose' moments, choose! If you're worried that she won't like your decision, don't be. She's probably already made up her mind and will tell you if your decision doesn't match hers. If she happily agrees then score one for male decision making and mind reading! If she says she'd rather go somewhere else then she's probably just having a chicken day rather than a pizza one, or a cinema one instead of a zoo one, so don't be disheartened. Keep trying - after all, practice makes perfect!

Love from lila xx